We understand that conflict is inevitable and that’s why we teach kids that apologizing is a process, not a race. Rather than rush to apologize and move on, we embrace conflict as an opportunity to slow down and teach youth the steps (pause, breath, feel, connect, restore) to acknowledge the harm and to restore the relationship.
Today, we will consider the Animal Wisdom that lives in each of us and how this activity provides kids with the opportunity to draw upon Indigenous values, in order to strengthen our communal bonds with one another and nature.
Social-Emotional Learning teaches kids to become more self-aware and cognizant of their emotional triggers, to connect with others, to foster and maintain supportive relationships, to keep calm in high-stress situations, and to make responsible decisions to help them weather any unforeseen event, such as a global pandemic.
Emojis are fun pictorial symbols that help us communicate more effectively. For example, you’ve probably used emojis to lighten up an otherwise serious communication exchange or to clarify your tone to prevent hurt feelings from a misunderstanding, like using a winking emoji at the end of your response to indicate to the other person that it was a joke.
Today’s post will concentrate on How Are You Different, an SEL activity participants use to achieve this goal. But before we delve into that, let’s discuss…
What if we told you there is a Social and Emotional Learning exercise that you can incorporate into your existing schedule that allows you to uncover the hidden side of your students?
Feedback is designed to reveal mental blindspots, which likely will make one feel imperfect, embarrassed, and hurt. So the question becomes – how do you react when you feel these icky sticky feelings?
It’s not surprising that white folks struggle with concepts in Robin Diangelo’s book, White Fragility. The internet (and perhaps other chat threads) are full of debate. But intellectual debate is not that interesting to me or the other trainers on my team. Here’s what is, and what I realize we need to acknowledge for our training participants.
Dominant culture, as created by those whose identities are most often centered, can be really hard to see or define. Like oxygen, it can become invisible even though we interact with it all the time.
Tighten up your virtual facilitation with these lessons we learned in 2020.
Social emotional learning to the rescue! Our ability to be self aware—and how we choose to self-manage—during these moments have helped us become stronger virtual leaders while deepening our relationships with our community and students.
Lisette Ostrander
Director of Education at Beyond Differences
Sarah Wan
Executive Director at CYC
Priscilla Parchia
Program Manager, Expanded Learning
Ay'Anna Moody
Director, Social Impact & Generation Thrive
Rodd Lee
Assistant General Manager, External Affairs
Erin Gutiérrez
Director of Learning & Development
Ariana Bayer
Manager of Family Programs
Pam Connie
Jill Nielsen
Felix Caraballo
P. Marcia Brown
Deanna Grant-Curtis
Carla Williams-Namboodiri
Profesora de Inglés y Humanidades, Escuela Bilingüe Internacional Middle School English and Humanities Teacher
Mei Ann Teo
Assoc Artistic Director, Director of New Work, Oregon Shakespeare Festival
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Director of Education at Beyond Differences
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Executive Director at CYC
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Program Manager, Expanded Learning
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Director, Social Impact & Generation Thrive
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Director of Learning & Development
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Ariana Bayer
Manager of Family Programs
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Pam Connie
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I would recommend at least 3 hours for this training.
Jill Nielsen
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P. Marcia Brown
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Deanna Grant-Curtis
I adapted the Lemonade activity from your Ice Breakers and Team Builders to Build Social-Emotional Skills for my advisory yesterday. Used the watering pot like a spin the bottle. After saying something they wanted to wash away from the week, they sprinkled water onto the classroom plants. I ❤ Read More
Carla Williams-Namboodiri
Profesora de Inglés y Humanidades, Escuela Bilingüe Internacional Middle School English and Humanities Teacher
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Mei Ann Teo
Assoc Artistic Director, Director of New Work, Oregon Shakespeare Festival
Appreciate y’all Aminta & Thomas! I wish we could combine our collective superpowers in facilitating.
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It was really helpful to have to say the actual words. Because it highlighted an issue that could have easily been glossed over- Thank you group.
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Thank you all for an amazing learning experience.
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Thank you so much. These strategies are really helpful and actionable!!
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Thank you for this extremely enriching experience!
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Thank you for a great session. This has been really informative and helpful.
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Thanks y’all. I am leading a capacity building cohort of 49 orgs. I am definitely going to share your info with them and explore with the foundation partners funding options for this work. Thank you!!!!! Love all of it 🙂
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Facilitating techniques are great. They are great!
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